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When Anti-Racism Becomes Degradation Kink for White People
White confession isn’t justice. This essay exposes how white guilt performances turn anti-racism spaces into confessional rituals that preserve power…
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When White People Use Autism to Justify Their Racism
Autism and Neurodivergence isn’t your shield from accountability. My latest essay exposes how whiteness uses neurodivergence as an excuse for racism…
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LBee Health and Lauren Howard Exposed: Fraudulent ADHD and Autism Assessments
Victim testimonies and investigation reveal how LBee Health and Lauren Howard exploited neurodivergent communities with unregulated ADHD and autism…
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June 2025

Why Neurodivergent People Need Honest Friends
What neurodivergent friendships really ask of us: conflict, truth-telling, and seeing the blind spots we can’t see alone. By Lovette Jallow
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Why We Don’t Know How to Repair Relationships Anymore
Why don’t we know how to repair relationships anymore? On conflict, avoidance, and the lost skill of community repair. By Lovette Jallow.
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When She Stayed Still Enough to Let Me In
A weekly neurodivergent sapphic fiction series about desire, consent, and the power of stillness by Lovette Jallow
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Do Hurt People Really Hurt People?
Lovette Jallow dismantles the overused phrase “hurt people hurt people,” weaving personal stories, survivor insight, and structural critique into one…
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When Rejection Sensitivity Becomes Emotional Coercion
Rejection sensitivity is real. But when it’s weaponized to reframe boundaries as betrayal, it stops being a wound and becomes a form of emotional…
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When Your Friend Becomes the Parent You Barely Survived
“Some of you aren’t parenting. You’re reenacting your own chaos with smaller, more vulnerable witnesses.”This is for the childfree people who recognize…
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What If “Narcissistic Abuse” Is Just… Abuse?
What if narcissistic abuse isn’t a diagnosis but a misreading of patterns? My latest essay challenges stigma, exposes pop-psych shortcuts, and reclaims…
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Neurodivergent Grief in West Africa: How Our Ancestors Protected What the West Pathologized
Neurodivergent grief doesn’t always arrive on schedule. In West Africa, it was never pathologized delayed mourning was held as communal wisdom. Lovette…
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May 2025

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